#the-school-of-life#source/youtube#love

from the school of life

the problem in being to logical in love

premis 1: we have worries that are not reasonable. but we worry nonetheless

when it’s expressed, we sometime got:
answers that are true, yet unhelpful

it may seem that they
look down on our concern

what do we actually want?

  • we want reassurance
  • comforted that all be okay

let’s say they know what we want, yet still doesn’t give what we want

why don’t they give what we want?

maybe symphatetic in the past gone no where. maybe you’ve been an asshole to them when they’re giving you what you actually want.

what to do when your partner is not being sympathetic to you?

try asking,
is it possible ive hurt or neglecting you?


I don’t really agree with this. feels like a historian, making vague connection, just correlations. doesn’t feel useful