#the-school-of-life#source/youtube#love
from the school of life
the problem in being to logical in love
premis 1: we have worries that are not reasonable. but we worry nonetheless
when it’s expressed, we sometime got:
answers that are true, yet unhelpful
it may seem that they
look down on our concern
what do we actually want?
- we want reassurance
- comforted that all be okay
let’s say they know what we want, yet still doesn’t give what we want
why don’t they give what we want?
maybe symphatetic in the past gone no where. maybe you’ve been an asshole to them when they’re giving you what you actually want.
what to do when your partner is not being sympathetic to you?
try asking,
is it possible ive hurt or neglecting you?
I don’t really agree with this. feels like a historian, making vague connection, just correlations. doesn’t feel useful